Some Back to School Preparations

It’s back to school time and youth ministers all across the state are counting down the days until they can get a nap. But before then, there is still time for some great opportunities to prepare your students for the upcoming year and reach out one more time to your community. 

Several churches are providing backpacks full of school supplies for children in the community. A quick call to the school can get you a list of school supplies needed by the students.  You can put them in the backpack and then distribute them to the families in your community. Distribution can either be done by the schools’ family resource centers or at the church in some kind of back to school bash.  And that is just what Second Baptist Church in Hopkinsville is doing. Chuck Poe is the youth minister there and they are currently passing out fliers in the community to inform families of their back to school bash.  Families that come will get a back pack with school supplies and a new testament.  There will also be inflatable games and food for the families that attend.

Chris Bumbalough, youth minister at Allen Baptist Church in Allen Kentucky uses this time to help get their students ready for the upcoming school year.  Bumbalough says, “I normally have a back to school cookout just to get everyone together and have a short talk on ‘Don’t waste this year’, and about using their influence at school for Christ.”  Our “studies change”, he continues, “but I normally hit on the spiritual disciplines to get them back into spiritual shape and routine.”

Cindy Long, youth minister at First Baptist Church in Princeton says, “Having just come off that amazing summer trip we immediately have gone into the Bible Study Experiencing God, and as they head back to school” we “just want their faith to be well-grounded”.  Long continues, “I am planning a “back-to-school” bash (might do it as a lock-in) haven’t decided for sure”. 

First Baptist Princeton also is planning some events to reach out to their community during the school year.  Long said, “We have just recently opened our new Christian Life Center (it has a full size gym); we have an adult Sunday School class who has agreed to come along side our youth and we are going to do after football game events (with devotions, food, fun, etc.)  and open it to the community/school kids”.

 In Trigg County, the Little River Association, where Carl Heckmann serves as the association’s youth director, several churches come together for a back to school retreat.  Heckmann, who also serves as the youth minister at East Cadiz Baptist Church reports, “From a Little River Baptist Associational point of view, we are once again taking our youth to a place close to our Director of Missions (Bro. Mike Rust) heart and one of the best keep secrets in Kentucky —Hillcrest Baptist Camp, near Cave In Rock Illinois. We have over 90 students and adults attending, representing 7 Churches.  Bro. Bill Fort of First Baptist Church of Richmond KY (and Trigg County native) is the Camp Evangelist and the Group “Seven” will lead in worship.

This year, Heckmann continues, “the theme of the Camp, as in most years, is specific to the upcoming School Year.  In fact, this year is “Preparing Our Youth for the Challenges of the 2010-11 School Year”.  In addition to the messages and emphasis on issues important to our youth as they embark on another year, Hillcrest’s beautiful but isolated setting allows for optimum interaction between students who get to know and appreciate each other as Christians –not just students.  Hillcrest has led to relationships between students which have lasted the entire school year and been the catalyst for other ministry and outreach endeavors.”

He continued, “Hillcrest is a real bargain at $11 per camper for the weekend and is unbelievable underutilized.  We actually leave in the morning and will stay until Sunday Afternoon, leaving in time to return and share with home churches in the evening service.”

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A Lesson in Context

Yesterday Gina and I went to the Kentucky State Fair.  That isn’t unusual, we have tried to make it an annual event every time we have lived in the Louisville area.  We like looking at the farm animals, seeing the teens get excited about showing their prize cows and sheep and looking at the blue ribbon displays.  I could spend hours just browsing the exhibit hall.

We chose to go yesterday so we could see one of the free concerts.  I am not sure how it is free when we paid $8 a piece to get in and another $8 to park. But that is a different story.  Yesterday the Kentucky Headhunters and Charlie Daniels were in concert.  I know my Bullitt County Redneckness is showing through, but hey it’s what I like.

Charlie Daniels at the Kentucy State Fair

While there as part of the crowd of several thousand people, I noticed the concert goers were for the most part having a grand time.  The cigarette smoke was flying,  the beer was everywhere and sleeveless shirts must of been the official dress code of the day.  People were dancing and singing and laughing. But in the midst of this God just overwhelmed me with the lostness of the people around us. 

I wondered who was making an effort to reach these people?  Tto tell them the redemtive story of Jesus and how their lives can be more than good music and good times? 

I was impressed that Charlie Daniels had changed some to the lyrics of his songs, taking out cuss words and drug paraphernalia references. (A fact that seemed oblivious to most in the crowd who just sang the old lyrics).  He also boldly claimed his love for Jesus and lead the crowd in singing “Amazing Grace”.  But even in that I wondered about the effectiveness of an entertainer on stage singing about his love of God in a sea of mostly buzzed concert goers.   Holding up their flaming lighters seemed the best they knew how to do to during this part of his set.

But who is building relationships with those in our communities who desperately need to hear the gospel?  Who is willing to step outside the cloistered Christian community to build relationships with them?

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A new look

Almost everything needs updating to stay fresh.  That is  how business like Lowes, Porter Paints and Sherwin-Williams stay in business.  So it is time for despisingnone to get a fresh look.

Thanks for reading and commenting for the past 3 years.

Let us know what you think about the new look.

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Being someone’s somebody different

On the way into work last week I heard an interview with current University of Louisville head basketball coach Rick Pitino.  And as hard as it is to admit as a Kentucky Wildcat fan some of what he said made sense and got me to thinking.  So at risk of someone coming and asking for my Big Blue fan card, here I go.

When asked about one of his players turning pro, against his advice, Coach Pitino said:

“It’s the strangest thing, and as a parent I can tell you this. And dealing with other parents who have had children, the one thing is, you’ll take a father, a Jerry West, an Oscar Robertson, you’ll sometime meet people of that stature, who’ll say to me, coach will you do me a favor. Can you speak to my son, and give him a little guidance;he’s not listening to me.  Well you’re Jerry West; you’re Oscar Robertson, not just singling those two out, and there have been others, ‘If they’re not going to listen to you, why are they going to listen to me’. It’s the same way in the game of life. I was always trying to get my oldest in shape when he was young, I’d say why don’twe do this or why don’t we do that, no dad I’m not going to do it, then all of a sudden,he met Short Brown our strength coach or Rock Oliver, and he said oh, I’m definitely going to do it. I said, I’ve been trying to get you to do it for years Michael and youwouldn’t listen to me. And he said oh no, but the strength coach told me to do it.So it’s often it happens in this game of life, who people listen to isn’t necessarily the person with the most wisdom, but the person that is somebody different in their life.”

 And that is the phrase that hit home: “who people listen to isn’t necessarily the person with the most wisdom, but the person that is somebody different in their life”. So it got me to thinking about the somebodies different in my life.  And maybe that has more to do with the fact that two of them passed away this past month than with what Coach Pitino said.

One of them I never met.  Dana Key was the lead singer and guitarist for the Christian Band DeGarmo & Key.  Their rich lyrics that were spiritually challenging and their musical style that spoke my heart language provided for me endless hours of soul searching as to what I was to be as a Christian young man.  Their call to not be a “Casual Christian” and a myriad of other songs challenged me in my faith and drew me to scripture. 

The other was Jabe Cravens.  Jabe and his wife Alohanawere youth sponsors at Little Flock.  He was a man’s man, a pipe fitter by trade that couldn’t wear a long sleeve shirt because his arms were too big for the sleeves.  Two of their three sons, Butch and Mike were older than me, their youngest Todd was younger.  Jabe had a zest for life, which showed every day. From the softball field to youth events to just hanging out at their house, he loved life and he loved us students.  The sheer number of us that showed up for his funeral some 30 years later reminded me of the influence he had on an entire generation of teens.

As a youth minister, I have had the chance to be the somebody different in the lives of students. As a parent I have had the privilege of seeing other adults be the somebody different in the lives of my kids. I have watched my dad, who has been scoutmaster of Boy Scout Troop 20 for over 40 years be that somebody different in the lives of countless young men. The church and our communities are full of teenagers that need somebody different to speak into their lives.

Let us do our part as a church to facilitate putting men and women of integrity in the lives of our students, men and women who maybe can be that “somebody different” in their lives.

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Teens experiencing Facebook Fatigue

This was posted last week at the Mashable/Social Media website

Online gaming site Roiworld surveyed 600 teens ages 13 to 17 in late April and found that teens spend two hours per day online on average, 80% of which is spent using a social network. These same teens are, however, showing signs of “Facebook Fatigue.” Nearly one in five (19%) who have an account no longer visit Facebook or are using it less.

Teens Study June 2010

Of the group that are saying goodbye to Facebook( ), 45% have lost interest, 16% are leaving because their parents are there, 14% say there are “too many adults/older people” and 13% are concerned about the privacy of their personal information.

While interest in Facebook may be waning, it’s still the most popular social network among teens — 78% have created a profile and 69% still use it. YouTube( ) ranks second; 64% of teens claim to have a YouTube profile and continue to use the site. MySpace( ) comes in a distant third (41%) and Twitter( ) takes the fourth spot (20%).

The study also suggests that the teens that continue to stick to Facebook do so primarily to play games. Roiworld found that more than one-third of the teens who play games on Facebook admit to spending at least 50% of their time on the site immersed in gameplay. The online gaming trend extends far beyond Facebook, as 75% of surveyed teens claim to play games on the web.

It seems obvious that the newest generation of online users would have few qualms about spending money online, and this study supports that theory. The research purports that 43% of teens using social sites have spent money within a social network. They’re purchasing items such as currency for virtual items (35%), music (33%), avatar accessories (30%) and points to level up (23%). Nearly half of this crowd (49%) indicate that they have an allowance for such expenditures.

For more on how teens are spending their time and money online, check out a portion of The Teens and Social Networks study embedded below.

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